Why You and Me Doesn’t Equal Three
Art therapy class taught me a lot. It consisted of a period of reflective expression in the form of a created piece of art, which was followed by a period of group therapy. It was amazing what took place through sharing what we had drawn, written, painted or sculpted.
Safe Versus Unsafe Emotions
Emotions belong in two worlds or in two domains. They are either healthy or unhealthy, productive or unproductive, primary or secondary, direct or indirect, safe or unsafe.
How Do I Know If I Should Help You or Not?
I have a real problem. If I listen to others, I really don’t know whether I should help you or not. Actually, I do know, but it occasionally gets me into trouble, because at times I have offered to help those that some I know don’t want me to help. For all manner of reason, good reasons and not-so-good reasons, helping sometimes creates problems in my relationships.
Relationships: Why Do Some People Lose Themselves When They Get Into A Relationship?
When two people get together and start a relationship, they can both have their own life. There is going to be how one person likes spend to their life and then there is going to be how the other person likes to spend their life.
What Did Your Parents Teach You About Men And Women?
I remember reading ‘Family Secrets’ by John Bradshaw and in this book he said, “it was and is your parents’ actually lives that educated you: not what they said, but what they did”. I took this to mean that what my parents did was far more important than what came out of their mouth.