The Peace You Seek in a Warring World
Spend any time watching social media and you soon discover that the world seems to be going crazy. There are sides in everything. Politics has its left and right. Church has its fundamentals and liberals. There are feminists and misogynists. Pro-lifers and those for pro-choice. Those for and against same-sex marriage. People who believe in euthanasia and those who don’t. This article is nothing about any of these issues.
That Relationship You Need a Miracle for
We’ve all been in this place. And yet, another grief falls upon us. There is a relationship that shatters us in the process of its shattering. Whether the relationship is intact or not is immaterial. There is a grief in both aspects of relationship: in absence especially, but also in presence. Ask the spouse of the one with dementia. What was so precious is gone, forever. Sometimes presence resembles absence in the cruellest of ways.
Making Sense of the Attitude of Forgiveness
If I’m a student of grief, I’m also a student of conflict, and whilst understanding of grief leads to acceptance, understanding of conflict leads to forgiveness. This is the premise: When you forgive you let go of what you cannot control.
You Have Daddy Issues
I was thinking the other day about how, over the years, I had heard a number of people say that certain women had “daddy issues”. This was something that was said if a woman blamed all men for everything and hated men, or even if she had the tendency to go for older men.
You Don’t Need Anyone To Love You
It’s not uncommon for someone to say that they want someone to love them, and this is what will motivate them to look for another person to be with. They might believe that everything will be fine after they have found someone like this.